'Bad, no one. Good, no one'

He/She is bad, who am i/u to decide that. If we think in a abstract way, no one is good/bad, its like a makeup they are applying to their mind.

Individual soul comes from here, at this stage, a child knows nothing. After some months, the mother will give birth to a baby with lot of dreams.

Definitely, at this stage, he/she knows nothing bad/good.

Now, he/she is cultivated with some good things, but day by day,

Some bad things too accompany him, unknowingly we are inserting the bad things in to us, the only difference is, some people will not admit too much of bad things, some will not restrict that, but whatever, every person will have both good/bad stuffs with them. Then after some days

So definitely its up to us to get into good things and avoiding bad things.But some felt for the past, that i was bad and all, definitely not, we have to realize that, we learned all sort of subjects, some may teach us good, some may end with bad, in anytime a person can change. So don't we have to judge anyone is good/bad, instead we have to judge ourselves. We can find both stuff in a single soul, so.

'No money', if

"If no money, nobody will be in hungry
If no money, nobody will be responsible
If no money, nobody will have sleepless nights
If no money, goals may be short
If no money, heart-attacks may be less
If no money, life will not be competitive
If no money, world will be filled with fun
If no money, no development
If no money, i will be with my family
If no money, no self improvement 
If no money, every dad can spend more time with their child :'(
If no money, education willl be less
If no money, stress may reduce
If no money, no credits for problem & no debits for life
If no money, no beggars
If no money, some dreams will not die
If no money, some love will not end
If no money, no kills, no kidnapping
If no money
If no money, we can sleep more time :'(
If no money, no traffic, no accident, no loss of life
If no money, no global warming
If no money, no phew!"

am not saying money will not be there, because money have many optimistic things, but we don't let it to rule us, its just an object to exchange the things nothing else. We are selling our man power with some price & getting other manpower with some price, which is necessary to daily life, i think this is the role of money, but we ruining our self by giving more priority to just an object. In the ancient time people used the exchanging habit, but day by day, 'How one feather become five hens?', oh god! life is short, but humans are thinking money is life, so losing beautiful relations, make more relations, not an object. An object will have depreciation, but not love. Am losing myself, for just this object, no don't let it happen. For the sake of making money, we are destroying the forests and everything, "A rat is hiding in a box, for its own hungry it started to eat that, but at one stage it spoils its own shelter, then caught by the rat, lost its life. We humans doing the same, for our luxurious lifestyle, we destroying our own shelter, please the stop doing non-sense things for money." Save the earth and relations for generations, not the assets.

First Take (With osi cam)

15/03/2013 -  'தஞ்சை  பெரிய கோவில் '

Is it correct to express our emotions to others?

 I have a doubt from long back, that i can express my emotions to others.

NO

 Yes, we can express, but to selective one. I faced a situation in my life, A person 'x' who is called as a good person/calm person/a person with awesome character/.. . but one day he reacted in a different way, within 2mins he expressed 3 types of emotions, then suddenly all started to say that,  he is mentally ill, actually i dono the reasons behind that, why i am telling this??? if everyone express(better not to express) their emotions in a proper way, proper way means, we should have some control in our inner emotions, when someone crossing their emotions and express it as a worry/angry/cries/shouting, there where the problem starts.

'Control, may control problems.'

why am i ?

Is this the feeling, i need to walk with?

   I think, blogging is nothing but blab-erring, but few do it in a proper way, i may fail in this. Lets to the point, i used to ask this question myself, u too(?). We have to take everything, that we crossed in our life time till end.

When this question arises?

  When i fail in something[1], when i miss someone[2], when i got scoldings from someone[3], when i feel lonely[4], when i hate myself[5], when i got angry[6], when i feel unsafe about my life[7], i will ask this question to myself  'why am i?'.

What is my answer?

  [1] - I fail, not because am not fit for that, now am not properly ready to fit it.

  [2] - They missed me actually, why i have to think about it.

  [3] - Have to respect others feelings, they may be emotional/jovial/quiet/talkative, u change urself according to their feelings. Analyze ur relations, everything is same.

  [4] - Its completely my mistake, no one is lonely. am responsible for my loneliness.

  [5] - I hate myself for my inability, in making my job/relations/needs. But it will find a way.

  [6] - Am losing a relationship, no don't do that, value a relationship. A real asset in life, people around us & beautiful relationships between them.

  [7] - Not ready to lose valuable life.